Hi, while I read of horror cases with financial advisors, I wonder if anyone here knows of a competent and conscientious advisor? Or any advisor from my institution suffice? Or am I deluding myself? lol! Thanks ever so much for any ideas. :)
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Further, if you choose to use a Money Manager - someone who manages your portfolio and buys/sells at their discretion - you'll pay a fixed fee on your total assets placed with them. That's a business model that the retail financial guys have adopted that is so perverse that it's hard to imagine. They simply get paid 1-3% of your total portfolio whether you gain or loose money. These guys won't participate in your gain or loss, thus they don't represent your interests. I suggest that "fee only" advisors have much the same position. They may offer somewhat more objective advice, but they certainly don' have any skin in the game.
Here's an acid test: Ask any advisor, broker, money manager if he will base his fee on how well your investments perform, either up or down?


Frankly, I personally get more financial advice from reading DA daily and learning what our members are using for their best investment choices and the pros and cons of using those choices. It all depends upon what risk you are willing to take or can take and at what age you are in your planning choices. If a financial advisor starts off "downing" CDs without taking the above into consideration, I would not use that person. If you are young with many more years to work and replace any money lost by risky choices, that is another consideration as to what you use. Best of luck and if you find that "special" advisor, I would love to hear about them.

Or so he claimed.
Aargh.




Investment advisors registered with the SEC or a state securities regulator are fiduciaries, subject to the duty of loyalty and due care with their clients. They are typically compensated by asset management fees and are expected to act in the best interests of their clients. But rules on these investment advisors as far as fiduciary duties may be changing. Make sure you have the list of questions to ask before making any appointments.

I'm so filled with admiration for your incredible knowledge, common sense and generosity. You all write well and intelligently THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THE GIFT YOU'RE GIVING ME!!!
But I forgot to explain that I'm not seeking a money handler, just hoping for someone (a professional) to help with a candid opinion on a rather personal money matter (not for investing for which they may refuse the service). And yes, I'm way way way past the 3rd age lol! Paoli said something very truthful in that reading the members' own personal decisions on this magnificent website can help a lot more than any professionals many of whom might be, as you all well said and I always felt, far from honest!
I read very carefully the valuable advice from all of you and will keep it in my own email to remind myself of all the crucial points on this matter.
Again, my deep thanks to all, you've been so kind and helpful! :o) Rosedala